There are many
things to be grateful of from your parents,
here are just some of the things they
taught me.
A code of conduct.
Sit up Straight
Look how you
want people to see you.
Look successful, feel yourself as already the person
you want to become.
Look smart and you’ll feel smart.
Saying Yes & No
It’s not what you say it’s how you
say it – so say it
right first time.
There are ways of accepting gracefully and others of letting
people down lightly.
Treat people how you like to be treated.
Learn from others
You can
learn what to do and what not to do from other people.
Follow those you wish to
emulate.
Learn from those who make mistakes so you too can avoid them in the
future.
Have heroes; read books, watch how they dress, deport themselves
and
use it to become more successful.
Be a student: Study, practise and teach.
Standing too close
We all have
space where we feel comfortable,
so work out others to ensure they feel
comfortable around you
and don’t back away.
Too close is too close.
Don’t visit too often
Remember not
to pester people so that they become fed up of seeing you.
Visit as frequently
as needed but no more.
It is better to be invited than be rejected.
Eat before you eat.
If you have
something to eat before you go to a meal
you won’t appear hungry and you’ll
have more time
to be sociable and communicate.
It’s not a feeding frenzy as
some people think.
Finishing schools.
Women have
an advantage, some go to finishing school
whilst most just learn how to listen.
Men are usually left out of this loop and have to learn;
I know many men who
are not finished.
There is a big difference between self-made and finished.
Attract success.
There you
have it simple home truths that will stand you in good stead
and start you on
the road to success.
We never stop learning but if we start here it will give
us a good foundation.
Thank you Mum & Dad.
As always I wish
you success in all you do.
Malcolm
PS If
you have anything to add from your own experience,
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